Quote of the Week – July 16, 2017

July 16, 2017

Image by Andy Dolman

I’m taking a slightly different approach to this week’s Quote of the Week and pulling from Ethan Hawke’s excellent book Rules for a Knight where a Knight tries to give his children directions on how to live their lives should he not return from battle.  I found this particular story particularly relevant:

One time, on a sweltering August night, Grandfather and I made camp down by the ocean. He said, “While I teach you about the ways of war, I want you to know that the real struggle is between the two wolves that live inside each of us.”

“Two wolves?” I asked, seated on an old log near the fire. My eyes were transfixed by the flames twisting uncomfortably in the night air.

“One wolf is evil,” he continued. “It is anger, envy, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, deceit, false pride.” He paused, poking at the embers of our fire with a long stick he’d been carving.

“The other is good. It is joy, love, hope, serenity, humility, loving-kindness, forgiveness, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, faith.”

I considered that for a minute, then tentatively asked, “Which wolf will win?”

Sparks danced towards the stars as the old man stared into the glare of the flames and replied, “Whichever one you feed.”

So, which wolf do you let win in your life and what impact has that had on your relationships?